You probably know this student: He holds an officer position in SGA, plays six sports, runs eight clubs, is an RA, saves endangered animals and is working on a plan to ease relations with Iran. This is all on top of having a signifant other and a social life.
Someone needs to tell these students to get in touch with the real world.
Overachieving students are hurting themselves and the 47 organizations they belong to.
When spread too thin, a student can’t adequately fulfill the obligations he has committed himself to. Sometimes he can’t even do some of his jobs.
“Overachievers have plenty to put on a resume when it’s time to apply to colleges, but they pay a price,” according to the College Board, an association committed to student academic success. “They lose a sense of balance, and the consequences can be severe.”
Yes, while a student’s eight-page resume may impress some potential employers (but probably not), the student is in for a reality check when he realizes he doesn’t actually know how to truly dedicate himself to something.
The point of building a resume is to get a job. The point of getting a job is to work. If students don’t learn how to actually work, as in ‘Do your job,’ there’s no point in having an impressive resume. College is supposed to give you the knowledge and tools to succeed as an adult— students probably aren’t going to have six different jobs once they graduate. They need to realize that.
The College Board goes on to say that overachievers can suffer from poor physical and mental health as well as a “loss of focus or passion.”
If a student is making himself sick on multiple levels by trying to make things happen all over campus, it’s time to re-evaluate the situation. Don’t feel ridiculously passionate about BioEthics or Mortar Board? Then quit and do something you actually love and will actually contribute to.
I’ll cast my stone only because I used to be that student—I used to be hyper-involved. While wanting to make a difference, I wasn’t actually doing a single thing. I didn’t necessarily see the light as much as I was forced to get out of the dark.
“Hey,” I thought, “I’m killing myself for nothing. I should get my [I’ll stay professional] together and try to enjoy myself more.”
An old saying advises people to do what they love and the money will follow. Even if it doesn’t bring financial success, a student will feel better knowing he wasn’t wasting his time while he did something that had actual results. And doing something the bare minimum, late or rehashing old assignments the same is not a result—it’s delusional laziness.
Natural disasters, unemployment, terrorism and apparently everything else under the sun are making the world a harder place to earn your keep. Students should consolidate their goals and time. They should be real with themselves and shed the organizations that are holding them back more than they’re pushing them forward.
If you can’t stand the heat, get out of the kitchen—because you’re wasting sweat.



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Seems this article hit a little close to home for someone....;)